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Tend-and-Befriend Response

Meaning

The Tend-and-Befriend Response is a stress coping mechanism, primarily observed in females, characterized by protecting the self and offspring (tending) and seeking out and creating social alliances (befriending). This distinct behavioral and physiological pattern is a survival strategy that contrasts with the classic “fight-or-flight” response, which was historically derived from male-centric models. The response is thought to be mediated by specific hormonal pathways that promote prosocial behavior under duress.